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 楼主| 发表于 2007-12-10 11:01 | 显示全部楼层
以下是引用诺基亚在2007-12-09 22:08:27的发言:

小熊想女人都想疯了。

[em131]

我只能说你不了解小熊而已。

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发表于 2007-12-10 11:07 | 显示全部楼层
以下是引用cute_bear在2007-12-10 10:56:43的发言:

不管怎样,谢谢红娘好意!

[em131]

你可真幸福,有人做红娘。不管成功与否,起码人家看的起你,要好好珍惜友情。

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 楼主| 发表于 2007-12-10 19:56 | 显示全部楼层
以下是引用Tonyliu在2007-12-05 19:09:20的发言:

Bear,

Jennifer and Jialin are all new at financial modelling and each work crazier hours than me. We have only two junior staff in the area and two senior ones that we got from an investment bank.

But, both girls already have boyfriends and been in a long term relationship. Definitely will introduce you to meet Jennifer( a Cambridge Grad), she has a few friends that are actively seeking boy friends.

Hi Tony, the girl on the photo looks so much like Betty!


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发表于 2007-12-10 21:17 | 显示全部楼层

开始还以为是只洋BEAR发的贴,仔细一看发现居然是只国产的...

一个中国小伙子用英语在公共场合损自己国家的女孩,挺讽刺哈

终于知道为啥让洋鬼子瞧不起了

 

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 楼主| 发表于 2007-12-10 21:27 | 显示全部楼层
以下是引用无-何-有在2007-12-10 21:17:39的发言:

开始还以为是只洋BEAR发的贴,仔细一看发现居然是只国产的...

一个中国小伙子用英语在公共场合损自己国家的女孩,挺讽刺哈

终于知道为啥让洋鬼子瞧不起了

 

[em127]

哎。。。我可没有上纲上线到"中国女孩"这样的高度,更何况我也没有恶意针对论坛上的某个66;我也不知道用英文发发牢骚,顺便拿自己开涮有什么不妥,,如果你一定要认定我是崇洋媚外,我也没有办法。

Birds of a feather flock together...

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发表于 2007-12-10 21:35 | 显示全部楼层
以下是引用cute_bear在2007-12-10 21:27:16的发言:

哎。。。我可没有上纲上线到中国女孩这样的高度,我也不知道用英文发发牢骚,顺便拿自己开涮有什么不妥,如果你一定要认定我是崇洋媚外,我也没有办法。

Birds of a feather flock together....

EXACTLY   

THATS Y UR LIFE IS FULL OF MATERIALISTIC GIRLS...

;-)

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 楼主| 发表于 2007-12-10 21:45 | 显示全部楼层
以下是引用无-何-有在2007-12-10 21:35:06的发言:

EXACTLY   

THATS Y UR LIFE IS FULL OF MATERIALISTIC GIRLS...

;-)

Well, the logic doesn't come right in the first place: someone coming across some materialistic girls doesn't mean that his life is full of materialistic girls.

Dating materialistic girls is like when you are in the middle of climax with your spouse, all of a sudden, he or she looked into your eyes saying that "hey, did you remember to pay for our utility bills last weekend?"   

 

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 楼主| 发表于 2007-12-10 21:58 | 显示全部楼层
发个贴子,以正视听,我贴子纯属个人牢骚抱怨,没有针对任何人的意思,大家别误会。[em135]
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发表于 2007-12-11 10:15 | 显示全部楼层
以下是引用无-何-有在2007-12-10 21:17:39的发言:

开始还以为是只洋BEAR发的贴,仔细一看发现居然是只国产的...

一个中国小伙子用英语在公共场合损自己国家的女孩,挺讽刺哈

终于知道为啥让洋鬼子瞧不起了

[em127

Not sure if some feel uncomfortable if the conversation is in English.  Generally I try to type Chinese, at least in my posts on this board.  However, if you read my posts, you will find that it is not that easy for me, as my typing in Chinese is rather slow.   

In any case, the fact that some "Foreign Devils" don't hold high respect for Chinese girls are not really caused by a few remarks on posts like this in English.  I mean, after all, those who dated Chinese girls have experienced all of these first hand.  Tom, a co-worker of mine summed it up quite interestingly.  It may be a bit stereotypical but I will quote him any way.  Per Tom, there are two kinds of Chinese girls, those from Shanghai and those from other places.  The ones from Shanghai only go to bed with Foreign Devils that have money and those from other places go to bed with any foreigners.  Don't take me wrong.  Personally I have no problem with interracial marriages.  The above quote is just to show that Foreign Devils are not as uninformed as you would like to believe.

This is not just coming from foreign guys.  In my prior job there were quite a few co-workers that are from different countries, including a few girls.  They also had the same remark that it appears that Chinese girls, both from the mainland and Hong Kong are typically more concerned with what kind of money the guy makes.  Definitely all women, Chinese or non-Chinese are concerned about future financial security, but it just seems that Chinese girls are even more so.  I mean, the Chinese women I worked with all make very good money already and some can certainly support a husband that does not work. 

Once basic needs are met, money is not, I repeat, not, the most important thing in life. 

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 楼主| 发表于 2007-12-11 23:11 | 显示全部楼层

抛开先入为主的成见来分析,喜欢找老外的女孩子未必就是拜金女。

古人言:“仓廪实而知礼节,衣食足而知荣辱。” 马克思说,经济基础决定上层建筑。一类中国女孩喜欢嫁老外的确是希望自己和家人能够得到更好的物质保障,希望后一代能够得到更好的教育,这本身无可厚非。套用政治教科书的说法,发达资本主义国家的几百年的原始积累造就了他们今天物质生活的极大丰富,而我们呢?经历了几十载的腥风血雨、物换星移,到头来抛弃了所谓主义和真理,才开始回头走别人几百年前的路,在这样的前提下,中国小伙能提供的物质条件怎么能跟国外的小伙比呢?

另一类女孩子喜欢老外是因为文化的差异产生的朦胧美。很多中国女孩子喜欢老外的浪漫。举个简单的例子,一个老外如果对一个中国女孩子说:“我初次见你好像看见了彩虹!” 这个女孩子感觉多半特别舒服的说声谢谢,同样的话从一个中国男人嘴里说出来,恐怕就是流氓阿非言语了。

最后一类,就是纯粹的拜金媚俗了。我母亲单位上一个男同事的老婆丢下丈夫和孩子,跟了个德国老外跑到德国定居了;我一个小学女同学的母亲听说同班男生移民到美国自己赚钱买了一辆车,眼珠子大的都快要掉下来了,其实美国买一辆车就好像国内买个自行车一样,没什么希奇的;前一阵子那个伊莱克斯公关女裸照的女主人公,估计也这种类型,年纪轻轻找一个美国老头子,哎!~~

就好像tonyliu说的,外面的世界对中国女孩子评价的确不好,对某些城市的女孩子尤甚。一个人越缺乏什么,往往越追求什么。Freud好像说过一句话,食欲和性欲是推动人类社会发展的原动力,这个或许是“男人喜欢美女,女人喜欢有钱人”最好的解释和注脚。

说了些自己看法,各位不要对号入座,没有针对任何人的意思,要是变成口水仗就没意思了。

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