做男人很累！！！

cute_bear

这几天一直很忙，忙到没有时间看AWSJ, FT，信报，21世纪和经济观察报，缺乏睡眠，缺乏运动，中午也是买盒饭吃完继续干活。。。yawn...

做男人好累啊，以后结婚有了孩子老婆怎么办啊？

[em132][em132][em132]

幻影风筝

[em132]

那变性做女人吧。。。如果你认为做女人不累

cute_bear

You won't feel the quarter-life crisis until you are in your late 20s and early 30s just like me... You've worked for a few years but are feeling that you're in the middle of nowhere. You work hard but the pay check would not be enough to cover the housing debt if there were no financial support from your parents; you keep looking for the right person but end up meeting high-maintainence and materialistic types or breaking up with your beloved ones.  

Again, you'd feel mid-life crisis when you are in your late 30s: you're no longer young, you face mounting pressure in the workplace, and you shoulder more financial burden from your kids, parents and parents-in-law...

I think Tony has been through the painful process already. Any experience to share with me, Tony?

[em132]

Tonyliu

以下是引用幻影风筝在2007-12-02 22:03:11的发言：

[em132]

那变性做女人吧。。。如果你认为做女人不累

作女人也很累的.  要掌握撒娇\, 说谎的艺术, 陪不同的人上床,直到把自己嫁到正经的人家去. 然后是公婆,男友之类的烦人事.

Tonyliu

以下是引用cute_bear在2007-12-03 14:01:32的发言：

You won't feel the quarter-life crisis until you are in your late 20s and early 30s just like me... You've worked for a few years but are feeling that you're in the middle of nowhere. You work hard but the pay check would not be enough to cover the housing debt if there were no financial support from your parents; you keep looking for the right person but end up meeting high-maintainence and materialistic types or breaking up with your beloved ones.  

Again, you'd feel mid-life crisis when you are in your late 30s: you're no longer young, you face mounting pressure in the workplace, and you shoulder more financial burden from your kids, parents and parents-in-law...

I think Tony has been through the painful process already. Any experience to share with me, Tony?

[em132]

Not much experience in that department.  Never dated any materialistic or high maintenance type of girl.  ressure in the workplace is fine, otherwise the job would be boring.  Family is beautiful,love my kids and would not trade them for anything else in life.    Supporting the family is actually fun thing to do too.  This way my wife does not have to work or worry about paying any bills and can use all her time with our little one to make sure she grow up properly.  Breaking up with some one you love is painful, but at the same time it leaves a lot of loving memories.  It is much better to love and suffer than never experience true love at all.  Loving is giving more than anything else.  I hope that helps.

cute_bear

以下是引用幻影风筝在2007-12-02 22:03:11的发言：

[em132]

那变性做女人吧。。。如果你认为做女人不累

风筝拜托！如果你是女生，如果你是上海本地的女生，你压力小很多：

1。你不用担心买房子，因为很可能你家里已经替你准备好了；如果没有，找个有房子的男人结婚，现在这个是婚姻市场潜规则么，呵呵；

2。你不用担心家务，因为你父母或者男友可以代劳；

3。你不用太担心父母的生死病老问题，因为他们就在你身边；

4。你不会有身在异乡的孤独寂寞，因为这里就是你从小长大的地方。

。。。。。。。还有很多，不用我详细展开了。

番茄蛋饭

是的是的，支持楼主。

管理员

以下是引用cute_bear在2007-12-03 19:35:24的发言：

风筝拜托！如果你是女生，如果你是上海本地的女生，你压力小很多：

1。你不用担心买房子，因为很可能你家里已经替你准备好了；如果没有，找个有房子的男人结婚，现在这个是婚姻市场潜规则么，呵呵；

2。你不用担心家务，因为你父母或者男友可以代劳；

3。你不用太担心父母的生死病老问题，因为他们就在你身边；

4。你不会有身在异乡的孤独寂寞，因为这里就是你从小长大的地方。

。。。。。。。还有很多，不用我详细展开了。

真的很累，小熊，你成为男人没有？

望月兔

唉~~ 说的好轻松啊熊大

sky_fighte

无奈的顶一下